الصديق THE FRIEND

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : المَرءُ على‏ دِينِ خَلِيلِهِ ، فَليَنظُر أحَدُكُم مَن يُخالِلُ .۱

۳۴۷۸.The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘Man follows the same creed as his friend, so consider carefully who it is you befriend.’۲

۳۴۷۹.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : الصَّديقُ أقرَبُ الأقارِبِ .۳

۳۴۷۹.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘One’s friend is the closest of one’s relations.’۴

۳۴۸۰.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : مَن لا صَدِيقَ لَهُ لا ذُخرَ لَهُ .۵

۳۴۸۰.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘He who lacks friends lacks a bare necessity.’۶

۳۴۸۱.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : الأصدِقاءُ نَفسٌ واحِدَةٌ في جُسُومٍ مُتَفَرِّقَةٍ .۷

۳۴۸۱.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Friends are a single soul divided between different bodies.’۸

الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : النُّفُوسُ أشكالٌ ، فما تَشاكَلَ مِنها اتَّفَقَ ، والناسُ إلى‏ أشكالِهِم أميَلُ .۱

۳۴۸۲.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Souls are of different kinds. Those that resemble each other are in harmony, and people are more attracted towards those they resemble.’۲

۳۴۸۳.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : كُلُّ امرِئٍ يَمِيلُ إلى‏ مِثلِهِ .۳

۳۴۸۳.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Every person is inclined towards one who is like him.’۴

۳۴۸۴.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : أسعَدُ الناسِ مَن خالَطَ كِرامَ الناسِ .۱

۳۴۸۴.The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘The most prosperous of people is he who mingles with honourable people.’۲

۳۴۸۵.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : أكثَرُ الصَّلاحِ والصَّوابِ في صُحبَةِ اُولِي النُهى‏ والألبابِ .۳

۳۴۸۵.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘The most goodness and righteousness is to be found in the company of people of reason and understanding.’۴

۳۴۸۶.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : مَن دَعاكَ إلى الدارِ الباقيَةِ وأعانَكَ على العَمَلِ لَها ، فهُو الصَّديقُ الشَّفيقُ .۵

۳۴۸۶.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘The one who invites you to the everlasting abode and helps you work towards it is a compassionate friend indeed.’۶

۳۴۸۷.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام : لاتُسَمِّ الرَّجُلَ صَدِيقاً سِمَةَ مَعرِفَةٍ حتّى‏ تَختَبِرَهُ بثلاثٍ : تُغضِبُهُ فَتَنظُرُ غَضَبَهُ يُخرِجُهُ مِن الحَقِّ إلى الباطِلِ ، وعندَ الدِّينارِ والدِّرهَمِ ، وحتّى‏ تُسافِرَ مَعهُ .۷

۳۴۸۷.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, ‘Do not call a man your friend with the true stamp of friendship until you have tested him in three matters: anger him so that you may see whether his anger takes him away from right into wrong; test him with the dinar and the dirham [in money matters]; and travel with him.’۸

۳۴۸۸.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام : اِصحَبْ مَن تَتَزَيَّنُ بهِ ، ولا تَصحَب مَن يَتَزَيَّنُ بكَ ۹ . ۱۰

۳۴۸۸.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, ‘Befriend one who gives you a good image, and do not befriend one who uses you to boost his own image.’۱۱

(وَيَوْمَ يَعَضُّ الظّالِمُ عَلَى‏ يَدَيْهِ يَقُولُ يا لَيْتَنِي اتَّخَذْتُ مَعَ الرَّسُولِ سَبيْلاً * يا وَيلَتا لَيْتَنِي لَم أتَّخِذْ فُلاناً خَلِيْلاً * لَقَدْ أضَلَّنِي عَنِ الذِّكْرِ بَعْدَ إذْ جاءَنِي وَكانَ الشَّيْطانُ لِلْإِنْسانِ خَذُولاً).۱

“A day when the wrongdoer will bite his hands, saying, ‘I wish I had followed the apostle’s way! Woe to me! I wish I had not taken so and so as a friend! Certainly he led me astray from the Reminder after it had come to me, and Satan is a deserter of man.”۲

۳۴۸۹.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : لا خَيرَ لكَ في صُحبَةِ مَن لا يَرى‏ لكَ مِثلَ الذي يَرى‏ لِنَفسِهِ .۳

۳۴۸۹.The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘It is not good for you to befriend someone who does not have your best interests at heart as he does his own.’۴

۳۴۹۰.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : مَن لَم يَصحَبْكَ مُعِيناً على‏ نفسِكَ فَصُحبَتُهُ وَبالٌ علَيكَ إن عَلِمتَ .۵

۳۴۹۰.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘He who, in his friendship with you, is of no aid to you against your base self, his friendship is a curse on you, if only you knew.’۶

۳۴۹۱.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : اِحذَرْ مُصاحَبَةَ الفُسّاقِ والفُجّارِ والمُجاهِرِينَ بِمَعاصِي اللَّهِ .۷

۳۴۹۱.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Beware of befriending corrupt people, immoral people, and those who openly commit acts of disobedience to Allah.’۸

۳۴۹۲.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : صَدِيقُ الجاهِلِ مَتعُوبٌ مَنكُوبٌ .۹

۳۴۹۲.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘The friend of an ignorant man is always wearied and miserable.’۱۰

۳۴۹۳.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : إيّاكَ ومُصاحَبَةَ الفُسّاقِ ؛ فإنَّ الشَّرَّ بالشَّرِّ مُلحَقٌ .۱۱

۳۴۹۳.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Beware of befriending immoral people, for verily only evil accompanies evil.’۱۲

۳۴۹۴.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام - في وصيَّتِهِ لابنِهِ الحَسنِ عليه السلام : يا بُنَيَّ ، إيّاكَ ومُصادَقَةَ الأحمَقِ ؛ فإنّهُ يُرِيدُ أن يَنفَعَكَ فَيَضُرُّكَ .۱۳

۳۴۹۴. Imam Ali (AS), in his will to his son al-Hasan (AS), said, ‘O my son, beware of befriending a stupid person, for although he will surely want to be of benefit to you, he will only bring you trouble.’۱۴

۳۴۹۵.الإمامُ زينُ العابدينَ عليه السلام - في وصيَّتِهِ لابنِهِ الباقِرِ عليه السلام - : إيّاكَ ومصاحَبَةَ القاطِعِ لِرَحِمِهِ؛ فإنّي وَجَدتُهُ مَلعوناً في كتابِ اللَّهِ عَزَّوجلَّ في ثلاثِ مَواضِعَ .۱۵

۳۴۹۵. Imam Zayn al-Abidin (AS), in his advice to his son al-Baqir (AS), said, ‘Beware of befriending one who has cut off relations with his kin, for verily I have seen him cursed in the Book of Allah, Mighty and Exalted, on three different occasions.’۱۶

۳۴۹۶.الإمامُ الرِّضا عليه السلام : صَديقُ الجاهِلِ في تَعَبٍ .۱۷

۳۴۹۶.Imam al-Rida (AS) said, ‘The ignorant man’s friend is always wearied.’۱۸

.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : إذا احتَشَمَ الرجُلُ أخاهُ فقد فارَقَهُ .۱

۳۴۹۷.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘When a man puts his friend to shame, he has indeed parted from him.’۲

۳۴۹۸.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : حَسَدُ الصَّديقِ مِن سُقم المَودَّةِ .۳

۳۴۹۸.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Jealousy of one’s friend stems from weakness in one’s love [for him].’۴

۳۴۹۹.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : لا يَغْلِبَنَّ علَيكَ سوءُ الظَّنِّ ؛ فإنّهُ لا يَدَعُ بينَكَ وبينَ صَدِيقٍ صَفْحاً .۵

۳۴۹۹.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Do not let bad opinion of people overcome you, for verily it will not leave any pardon between you and your friend.’۶

۳۵۰۰.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : مَنِ استَقصى‏ على‏ صَدِيقِهِ انقَطَعَت مَوَدَّتُهُ .۷

۳۵۰۰.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘He who penetrates deeply into his friend’s affairs, his love for him comes to an end.’۸

۳۵۰۱.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : مَن ناقَشَ الإخوانَ قَلَّ صَدِيقُهُ .۹

۳۵۰۱.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘He who argues with his brothers has few friends.’۱۰

۳۵۰۲.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام : إن أرَدتَ أن يَصفُوَ لكَ وُدُّ أخِيكَ فلا تُمازِحَنَّهُ ، ولا تُمارِيَنَّهُ ، ولا تُباهِيَنَّهُ ، ولا تُشارَّنَّهُ .۱۱

۳۵۰۲.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, ‘If you want the exclusive love of your brother, then do not ever make fun of him, nor quarrel with him, nor compete against him, nor be malicious to him.’۱۲

۳۵۰۳.الإمامُ الهاديُّ عليه السلام : المِراءُ يُفسِدُ الصَّداقَةَ القَديمَةَ ، ويُحَلِّلُ العُقدَةَ الوَثِيقَةَ ، وأقَلُّ ما فيهِ أن تَكونَ فيهِ المُغالَبَةُ ، والمُغالَبَةُ اُسُّ أسبابِ القَطيعَةِ .۱۳

۳۵۰۳.Imam al-Hadi (AS) said, ‘The quarrel corrupts a long friendship and dissolves strong ties, the least of it is that one tries to overcome the other, and strife is the main cause of a break in friendship.’۱۴

۳۵۰۴.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : الصَّديقُ الصَّدوقُ : مَن نَصَحَكَ في عَيبِكَ، وحَفِظَكَ في غَيبِكَ ، وآثَرَكَ على‏ نَفسِهِ .۱

۳۵۰۴.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘A sincere friend is he who advises you with regard to your shortcomings, protects you in your absence, and prefers you over himself.’۲

۳۵۰۵.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : اُبذُلْ لِصَدِيقِكَ كُلَّ المَوَدَّةِ ، ولا تَبذُل لَهُ كُلَّ الطُمأنِينَةِ .۳

۳۵۰۵.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘'Shower all your love on your friend but do not shower all your trust on him.’۴

۳۵۰۶.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام : لا تَكونُ الصَّداقَةُ إلّا بِحُدُودِها، فَمَن كانَت فيهِ هذهِ الحُدودُ أو شَي‏ءٌ مِنهُ ، وإلّا فلا تَنسِبْهُ إلى‏ شَي‏ءٍ مِن الصَّداقَةِ ، فَأوَّلُها : أن تكونَ سَرِيرَتُهُ وعَلانِيَتُهُ لكَ واحِدَةً ، والثانيةُ : أن يَرى‏ زَينَكَ زَينَهُ ، وشَينَكَ شَينَهُ ، والثالثةُ : أن لا تُغَيِّرَهُ علَيكَ وِلايَةٌ ولا مالٌ ، والرابعةُ : لا يَمنَعُكَ شَيئاً تَنالُهُ مَقدُرَتُهُ ، والخامسةُ - وهي تَجمَعُ هذهِ الخِصالَ - : أن لا يُسلِمَكَ عِندَ النَّكَباتِ .۵

۳۵۰۶.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, ‘Friendship can only succeed when its conditions are fulfilled, and he who fulfils all or some of these conditions may be befriended, and if not, then do not attribute any of your friendship to him. The first of these conditions is that he should treat you in public the same as he treats you in private. Secondly, that your source of pride is a source of pride for him, and your source of shame is a source of shame for him too. Thirdly, that neither position nor wealth should change him towards you. Fourthly, that he must not prevent you from obtaining that which you have the capacity for, and fifthly – and this sums up all the other qualities – that he must not give up on you in times of misfortune.’۶

۳۵۰۷.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : خَيرُ الأصحابِ مَن قَلَّ شِقاقُهُ وكَثُرَ وِفاقُهُ .۱

۳۵۰۷.The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘The best of companions is he who has little discord and much harmony.’۲

۳۵۰۸.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : المُعِينُ على الطاعَةِ خَيرُ الأصحابِ .۳

۳۵۰۸.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘One who aids you in your obedience [to Allah] is the best of companions

۳۵۰۹.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام: لا تَقطَعْ صَديقاً وإن كَفَرَ .۱

۳۵۰۹.Imam Ali (AS) said, ‘Do not cut off a friend, even if he is ungrateful.’۲

۳۵۱۰.الإمامُ زينُ العابدينَ عليه السلام : أمّا حَقُّ الصاحِبِ : فَأن تَصحَبَهُ بِالتَفَضُّلِ والإنصافِ ، وتُكرِمَهُ كما يُكرِمُكَ ، ولا تَدَعَهُ يَسبِقُ إلى‏ مَكرُمةٍ ، فإن سَبَقَ كافَأتَهُ ، وتَوَدُّهُ كما يَوَدُّكَ ، وتَزجُرُهُ عمّا يَهُمُّ بهِ مِن مَعصيَةٍ ، وكُن علَيهِ رَحمَةً ، ولا تَكُن علَيهِ عَذاباً .۳

۳۵۱۰. Imam Zayn al-Abidin (AS) said, ‘The right of your companion is that you share his company with bounty and fairness. You should honour him as he honours you, and should not let him be the first to extend his generosity. And if he is the first to do so, then repay him. Love him as he loves you, and restrain him from any act of disobedience that he might contemplate. Be a mercy for him, and not a chastisement.’۴

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